January 15, 2009

Secret Life of Mistress

For those of you with Comcast cable, and an OnDemand box, you've probably scanned the options – a LOT of complimentary (aka free) shows to watch. Oh yes, there's the dirty shows too for the wankers! Yet when it comes to porn, I tend to watch free snippets online – there is so much available out there hm?

Tonight, while toiling in the wee hours, I decided to dabble in "Secret Lives of Women" on the WE TV. I'm just finishing up show titled Mistresses (show 308). I appreciate their interview with a pro Domme named Cristian (her real life name is Christine), quite a bit.

Many times vanilla shows that focus on Women like Me, tend to portray them as off the grid and something to be feared. Cristian is a mother, and has a relationship with a vanilla boy who's comfortable with her career. They also show Mistress in full session, and she has a nicely outfitted dungeon, a little man on his knees in a pvc maids outfit, being flogged and humiliated (yum!!).

Ah, wouldn't it be nice if I could go to the local coffee shop, strike up a conversation with a stranger with a smile, and tell them what I really do for a living. I live with that fear you know. And I've made a few mistakes in trust. The friend's you've known for years. You know the ones that are accepting, open minded, may have even come on to you a time or two…

I get so frustrated with the lack of acceptance and the dirty nature We get castigated into. Flip side of that though, is one of the main reasons boys want to play with Me, is that very forbidden nature. It's a turn on, isn't it?