Early Saturday morning, and I just finished a lushious meal. My legs are a little tired from the jump rope workout I did today, but I can just feel how it's helping my body. I'm really loving my workout routines lately. I'm seeing some great results and feeling that healthy glow.
Was feeling pretty sexy this week. Went out in this lush outfit, deep colors, snug short skirt, short little sweater. I've been trying a few different cuts and hair styles the last year or two, seeing what makes me feel my hottest!! Whatever I'm doing, it's working! Men are flirting with me left and right, and a few women too! hehe
I might have to choose Me a new lover soon. We'll have to see how that unfolds... Until then, I'm going to keep playing with my subs and slavelettes... you'll have to keep Mistress busy!
April 26, 2008
April 17, 2008
Stone cold deep
Mistress is happy today, because one of my fave slaves is having a birthday next week, and we've just had a chance to catch up! I sent him off a special little gift in snail mail today, I think he'll like it quite a bit. Had to warn him though - don't open it in front of anyone else - otherwise he might be a bit embarrassed! haha
Friday is almost here, just hours away. Saw the movie "No Country for Old Men" last night, and was not disappointed. Strange how a movie will stay resident, far after viewing. There are questions still in my mind about different characters.
I was slightly disappointed in one way. My blog readers know I've got a little thing for Javier Bardem. After seeing this movie, I doubt I'll be having those late night sessions, wrapping Myself around his fine form, at least in My mind! Might have to rent another one of his films to shake off the vibe of Anton Chigurh. Yes, he did win the Oscar for this performance. Although it did kill this Girl's libido a bit. Chigurh is one big f*cking bad ass, lemme tell ya!!
Looking forward to sliding fingers through your synapses this weekend...
Friday is almost here, just hours away. Saw the movie "No Country for Old Men" last night, and was not disappointed. Strange how a movie will stay resident, far after viewing. There are questions still in my mind about different characters.
I was slightly disappointed in one way. My blog readers know I've got a little thing for Javier Bardem. After seeing this movie, I doubt I'll be having those late night sessions, wrapping Myself around his fine form, at least in My mind! Might have to rent another one of his films to shake off the vibe of Anton Chigurh. Yes, he did win the Oscar for this performance. Although it did kill this Girl's libido a bit. Chigurh is one big f*cking bad ass, lemme tell ya!!
Looking forward to sliding fingers through your synapses this weekend...
April 13, 2008
And this goodbye
This is going to be a difficult article to write.
A close friend of Mine, and fellow Mistress, was called today with very distressing news. One of her slaves, who was extremely depressed, was pressuring to meet outside of Niteflirt, romanticizing their relationship. She let him know that they needed to take a break from sessioning together because he was becoming too demanding, and she suggested he get counseling to address his depression. She'd been concerned about him too due to this, and he was asking for more extreme humiliation during sessions. To the point of making My Mistress friend uncomfortable.
Today my friend received a call from the man's family, that the client had committed suicide. In their hurt and anger, they lay blame for his demise partially at My Mistress friend's doorstep. Telling her that she's hurting people. Wanting to hold her accountable, because at present, it hurt too much to hold the man himself accountable to his own actions.
It brings alot of uncomfortable feelings forth, dealing with her sadness over the news, and also being held accountable for someone choosing to harm themselves fatally.
As a Mistress, I hold Myself accountable for My actions. I also realize that when a slave client picks up their dick, and their credit card to call me, they know the deal. I provide a service, specialized to clientele who enjoy BDSM roleplay and session work. I'm not qualified as a psychologist, a doctor, a priest... although many times these skills weave into the work.
I have clients who hide their discomfort with the real world, by self medicating with drugs, alcohol, adrenalin, extreme fantasy, humiliation, you name it. As Ani Difranco says, "Any tool is a weapon, if you hold it right."
Today I feel sadness for the man who ended this life just this week. I know my Mistress friend is hurting too, and it's difficult to see her in this pain. We all ask ourselves in these situations... could I have done more.
I love my job, and understand that there is dark and light to this work. Below are resources that may help if you feel the need:
National Suicide Hotlines USA
United States of America
Toll-Free / 24 hours a day / 7 days a week
1-800-SUICIDE , also 1-800-273-TALK
The Alcohol Hotline - 1-800-ALCOHOL
National Institute on Drug Abuse Helpline 1-800-662-4357
I feel honored to claim the task of Mistress with my submissives. I also need to know you come to Me for the right reasons. And ultimately, this has to be decided by you. I offer prayers of guidance and light in your search.
A close friend of Mine, and fellow Mistress, was called today with very distressing news. One of her slaves, who was extremely depressed, was pressuring to meet outside of Niteflirt, romanticizing their relationship. She let him know that they needed to take a break from sessioning together because he was becoming too demanding, and she suggested he get counseling to address his depression. She'd been concerned about him too due to this, and he was asking for more extreme humiliation during sessions. To the point of making My Mistress friend uncomfortable.
Today my friend received a call from the man's family, that the client had committed suicide. In their hurt and anger, they lay blame for his demise partially at My Mistress friend's doorstep. Telling her that she's hurting people. Wanting to hold her accountable, because at present, it hurt too much to hold the man himself accountable to his own actions.
It brings alot of uncomfortable feelings forth, dealing with her sadness over the news, and also being held accountable for someone choosing to harm themselves fatally.
As a Mistress, I hold Myself accountable for My actions. I also realize that when a slave client picks up their dick, and their credit card to call me, they know the deal. I provide a service, specialized to clientele who enjoy BDSM roleplay and session work. I'm not qualified as a psychologist, a doctor, a priest... although many times these skills weave into the work.
I have clients who hide their discomfort with the real world, by self medicating with drugs, alcohol, adrenalin, extreme fantasy, humiliation, you name it. As Ani Difranco says, "Any tool is a weapon, if you hold it right."
Today I feel sadness for the man who ended this life just this week. I know my Mistress friend is hurting too, and it's difficult to see her in this pain. We all ask ourselves in these situations... could I have done more.
I love my job, and understand that there is dark and light to this work. Below are resources that may help if you feel the need:
National Suicide Hotlines USA
United States of America
Toll-Free / 24 hours a day / 7 days a week
1-800-SUICIDE , also 1-800-273-TALK
The Alcohol Hotline - 1-800-ALCOHOL
National Institute on Drug Abuse Helpline 1-800-662-4357
I feel honored to claim the task of Mistress with my submissives. I also need to know you come to Me for the right reasons. And ultimately, this has to be decided by you. I offer prayers of guidance and light in your search.
April 6, 2008
Early morning ramble
It's early in the wee hours of Sunday morning, and Mistress is feeling a little hungry and a bit tired. I've been following an exercise and diet system for a few weeks now. Summer's on the way, and Mistress wants to be a firm grrl in tan skin!
Although, I can say that Boca burgers, ground turkey breast, and low fat cottage cheese, can become a little tedious after awhile!!
*think of yourself firm, tan, toned... *
Most of my weekend has been spent with 2 of my clients, one on a very long forced intox call, the other being a sweet little piggy, talking about giving away his money just gives him the biggest... uh well you know :)
I think Mistress needs a little coffee this morning.. where is my sissy maid...
Although, I can say that Boca burgers, ground turkey breast, and low fat cottage cheese, can become a little tedious after awhile!!
*think of yourself firm, tan, toned... *
Most of my weekend has been spent with 2 of my clients, one on a very long forced intox call, the other being a sweet little piggy, talking about giving away his money just gives him the biggest... uh well you know :)
I think Mistress needs a little coffee this morning.. where is my sissy maid...
March 28, 2008
Balls of Gold
I'm so glad Friday has arrived. Time for my bois to come out and play... I tend to take Wednesday off work, and usually one other midweek day, and work through the weekends. Seems there are just more sissies, sluts and slavelettes furrowing about on the weekends. You know who you are!
I'm about to watch a Spanish movie called Golden Balls (ahem!) on DVD. It stars Javier Bardem, the recent Oscar winner. That man does make a girl go hmmm... at least it makes THIS one go hmmm!!! Can't wait to see what this movie is about. I'll make sure to post my review of it later! He's so talented, I'm sure I'm in for a good time!
Shout out to batman, thanks for the Sportblock adjustable weight set. Got that with the recent Amazon gift card you gave me, and I'm so looking forward to using them!
I'm soooo ready for summer to get here...
I'm about to watch a Spanish movie called Golden Balls (ahem!) on DVD. It stars Javier Bardem, the recent Oscar winner. That man does make a girl go hmmm... at least it makes THIS one go hmmm!!! Can't wait to see what this movie is about. I'll make sure to post my review of it later! He's so talented, I'm sure I'm in for a good time!
Shout out to batman, thanks for the Sportblock adjustable weight set. Got that with the recent Amazon gift card you gave me, and I'm so looking forward to using them!
I'm soooo ready for summer to get here...
March 18, 2008
Pumping... what?
It's been a long winter, and I've been feeling the need to shake things up a bit. When the days are cloudy and drizzly, it's hard to get out there and run those 3 miles. Mistress is taking a new challenge on...
While it's rare for a Woman to lift weights as ardently as many men do, I'm a grrl who likes what dumbbells can do for My sweet little curves.
I do have a membership to a gym, although I've been craving a home gym to pump iron. Have to get these biceps strong. I mean really, so many bottoms out there need a good strong slap! :)
Home gyms do have the advantage of working out naked, if you're in the mood! Check out My Amazon wishlist (see the button in the right column) to buy Mistress a set of spiffy hand weights. I have a great weight bench, incline, decline and all... however my dumbbell collection could use some vamping up.
Bowflex, PowerBlock, even Xvest, they're all well made dumbbells with good reviews. I'm following the Body for Life system by Bill Phillips, and I'll make sure to give you bois and gals and update or two!
While it's rare for a Woman to lift weights as ardently as many men do, I'm a grrl who likes what dumbbells can do for My sweet little curves.
I do have a membership to a gym, although I've been craving a home gym to pump iron. Have to get these biceps strong. I mean really, so many bottoms out there need a good strong slap! :)
Home gyms do have the advantage of working out naked, if you're in the mood! Check out My Amazon wishlist (see the button in the right column) to buy Mistress a set of spiffy hand weights. I have a great weight bench, incline, decline and all... however my dumbbell collection could use some vamping up.
Bowflex, PowerBlock, even Xvest, they're all well made dumbbells with good reviews. I'm following the Body for Life system by Bill Phillips, and I'll make sure to give you bois and gals and update or two!
March 13, 2008
Bite the hand you stroke with
As some of My very dedicated bois know, I find history a wonderful place to visit. I've made a few posts about ancient Rome, and now am smirking just a little, with recent events in the news.
Seems a high and mighty New York governor boy has been found out, spending thousands an hour, to share his time and bodily fluids, with a professional sex worker. Emperors Club, indeed! Especially at those rates!!
I found this situation a bit alarming, as I have a friend who works in Manhattan as an escort. Two consenting adults, choose to spend time together as they see fit, for an agreed upon wage. And that's wrong because... ?
Something to consider, from Wikipedia, the place of many authors, some of them even being accurate - "The English word whore is taken from the Old English word hōra (from the Indo-European root kā meaning "desire") but usage of that word is widely considered pejorative, especially in its slang form of ho'. In Germany most prostitutes' organizations deliberately use the word Hure (whore) since they feel that prostitute is a bureaucratic term. Those seeking to remove the social stigma associated with prostitution often promote terminology such as commercial sex worker (CSW) or sex trade worker."
Situations like this, where a hypocritical politician attacks others who pursue activities he also desires, cause Me to ponder. I am indeed classified as a sex worker. One of the few legal sex work categories here in the United States. Mainly because, well from arm's length, on the phone, we can't really rub naughty bits together eh? That, and Dominatrix chicks like Myself, rarely engage in sex with submissives anyway. My slaves are here to entertain Me. It is they that do the sucking, f*cking and c*mming, if I so choose to allow them to.
I chose this work, after earning My degrees, having a full decade career as a software chick. I earned good coin doing that work. And you know what? I like this work, so much more.
One last note - My perspective regarding sex workers comes as someone who has chosen this field. I've not been forced, coerced, or abused by tyrants such as pimps, etc. Choice is important in such things. And My sweet little slaves and submissive minions, I choose, with open arms, you.
Seems a high and mighty New York governor boy has been found out, spending thousands an hour, to share his time and bodily fluids, with a professional sex worker. Emperors Club, indeed! Especially at those rates!!
I found this situation a bit alarming, as I have a friend who works in Manhattan as an escort. Two consenting adults, choose to spend time together as they see fit, for an agreed upon wage. And that's wrong because... ?
Something to consider, from Wikipedia, the place of many authors, some of them even being accurate - "The English word whore is taken from the Old English word hōra (from the Indo-European root kā meaning "desire") but usage of that word is widely considered pejorative, especially in its slang form of ho'. In Germany most prostitutes' organizations deliberately use the word Hure (whore) since they feel that prostitute is a bureaucratic term. Those seeking to remove the social stigma associated with prostitution often promote terminology such as commercial sex worker (CSW) or sex trade worker."
Situations like this, where a hypocritical politician attacks others who pursue activities he also desires, cause Me to ponder. I am indeed classified as a sex worker. One of the few legal sex work categories here in the United States. Mainly because, well from arm's length, on the phone, we can't really rub naughty bits together eh? That, and Dominatrix chicks like Myself, rarely engage in sex with submissives anyway. My slaves are here to entertain Me. It is they that do the sucking, f*cking and c*mming, if I so choose to allow them to.
I chose this work, after earning My degrees, having a full decade career as a software chick. I earned good coin doing that work. And you know what? I like this work, so much more.
One last note - My perspective regarding sex workers comes as someone who has chosen this field. I've not been forced, coerced, or abused by tyrants such as pimps, etc. Choice is important in such things. And My sweet little slaves and submissive minions, I choose, with open arms, you.
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